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Suffering in Silence

Many are suffering in silence. Unable to share their deepest hurt. Unwilling to speak about their pain. Let me help you see why silence isn't always golden.

There are many things in this life that cause us pain. Relationships, finances, and illnesses top the list of things that cause pain. We feel the pain when we don’t have enough money to keep our lights on or feed our family. The pain is much more intimate when it is searing through your body. […]

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Moving from surviving to thriving

We spend most of our lives in survival mode. The time has come to stop surviving and start thriving. Check out today's post and learn how to thrive!

Facing difficult times is overwhelming. It feels as if the world is closing in on yours. That the very air you breath is heavy with the weight of the responsibility that you are facing. You want to thrive, but all you can do is survive. We start to rationalize the weight of it. You think, […]

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How to help someone through depression

Depression is hard for everyone involved. Being depressed or taking care of someone who is can be challenging. Let me help you through the struggle.

Depression can happen to anyone of us. Your crush broke your heart. You thought you were going to make the team only to find out that you were the only one cut. The loss one of your parents in a car accident. You lived through abuse. The person you married wasn’t the person you thought […]

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Suicide: The Fight for your life

Suicide is the 10th leading cause of death in the United States. Suicide takes more lives than guns, drugs, and car crashes. It's time to do something.

At this moment, people are fighting for their lives.   You may be fighting for your life. The only reason you haven’t told anyone is because you are afraid of what they might think. In reality, this battle is not seen on the outside. It is an internal battle that rages and rages. A battle […]

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How to Heal Broken Trust

When hurt appears trust disappears. Without trust, we cannot have deep relationships. Now is the time to learn how to heal broken trust.

Have you ever had a time when someone broke your trust?   How did you handle that?   I am willing to bet that it wasn’t handled well.   You may have yelled, stormed off, stop speaking to them, or even hit them.   Whatever your response was I know what you were feeling.   […]

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Am I the problem?

It's time to STOP blaming others and START looking at our own hearts. We have been blaming everyone else for being toxic, but what if we were the problem?

You and I have a problem. [bctt tweet=”Admitting that we have a problem is one of the hardest things that we struggle with. ” username=”jim_Burgoon”] We know it exists. Right below the surface is all our pain, our hurts, and our issues. It is waiting for the right place and time to show it’s ugly […]

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How to tell if your friends are the reason you’re not thriving

Don't live life carrying the consequences of toxic engagements. It's time to clean up our lives of the toxic people who are killing our hearts.

Identifying the toxic people in your life and what to do about them.  Have you ever noticed that when you are around certain people that you feel off? You cannot put your finger on it, but you know something is different. Your whole vibe changed. You no longer feel upbeat. Then you realize that you are fighting […]

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How to recover from a painful loss at Christmas

Christmas is suppose to be full of joy, but sometimes it is full of pain. What if I told you that you can recover from a painful loss at Christmas?

It’s Christmas Time! No matter where you are Christmas is all around you. Trees decorated with the most beautiful lights. Stockings hung by the chimney with care. The smell of Christmas cookies are in the air. If you are anything like me then you the colder weather is exciting you. In a little while, you […]

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Now you can win the most important fight of your life

We are plagued with insecurities. How you became insecure isn't as important as what you are going to do with these insecurities.

I have a problem. It has been a problem that I have been dealing with most of my life. This problem has limited my potential. It has caused me to run from problems. I have this feeling of emptiness deep inside. My problem is not an uncommon one. As a matter of fact, you are […]

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Mental Illness and You

I was born in the 70’s, but I was a child of the 80’s. The music, the food, the crazy hair, the zest for life, the cars, the wonderful Saturday morning cartoons, and those crazy parachute pants. In the 80’s the big thing that was sweeping the world was HIV/AIDS. We were told not to […]

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8 Things to Do in the Midst of Failure

How to Deal with Failure and Loss We have all dealt with faliure and loss at some point in our lives. Maybe it was the loss of your job?  The loss of your business? The loss of something that you believed should have been  successful, but it wasn’t. A loss brings a lot of pain with […]

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6 Ways to Gain an Advantage During an Argument

Arguing from a place of victory and health We all argue! Some people scream. Some people say mean things. Some people get pushy. Some people fight dirty by using secrets against the other person. Some people fight without using any words. Some people stay silent. Some people will wait for the right moment to get […]

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Welcome to My Blog

Welcome to my blog. My name is Jim and I am a virtual coach who wants to add value to people who are looking to win in life by finding health and wholeness in their relationships, their leadership, and their faith. To make my experiences and thoughts available to you I am starting this blog. It’s […]

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